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You might exist nervous well-nigh approaching an otaku daughter with romantic intentions, regardless of whether you're an otaku or non-otaku guy. Dating a girl who falls nether this category isn't whatsoever more difficult than dating any other daughter, though. All you actually need to practise is find the girl and entreatment to her interests well enough for her to take discover of y'all.

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    Check the stereotypes at the door. The problem with any label is that it tends to reduce people to zippo more than than stereotypes and hollow shells. Earlier you approach an otaku girl, remind yourself that she is an private person with her own quirks, beliefs, and personality. Some of her characteristics might scream "typical" otaku, but many won't.

    • The aforementioned affair tin can be said near impressing her once you've already met and started to date. At that place is no single fix of steps that can exist used on every girl who falls under the "otaku" label—including the steps listed in this article. Employ the label as a starting point, but always personalize your approach based on the specific girl.

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    Log on. Otaku girls can often exist found online in chat rooms, forums, and various social media websites. Moreover, these girls are often comfortable interacting in the digital realm and can appreciate an online meeting but likewise as an offline one.

    • Navigate forums related to anime, manga, or other aspects of otaku culture. Join agile groups on Facebook or other social media websites about those topics, as well, and participate in the discussions that go on as much as possible.
    • When you find an interesting daughter, start post-obit her on her web log or on i or two social media websites. Don't follow all of her accounts at once, though, since doing and so may come on too stiff and scare her away.[1]

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    Venture into the real world. Not every otaku girl is glued to her computer monitor, of course. The vast majority have lives in the real world, and if you want a more than traditional meeting, your best bet is to track down the otaku girl in her natural habitat. In other words, go someplace related to her interests since she'd exist likely to visit there in her free time.

    • For example, try going to a store that has a wide selection of anime or manga. Spend time at an arcade. Encounter a movie that has a large female fandom or, if you're feeling especially daring, try going to an anime convention.

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    Arroyo her with a good opening line. Once you find a girl who piques your interest, you lot need to make a practiced commencement impression. You don't necessarily demand a flashy, witty pick-up line, though. Striking upwards an interesting conversation might be more than enough.

    • Discussions well-nigh shows, movies, and related media tend to exist a proficient place to commencement, especially if you lot see her looking at a similar series in a store.[2] If yous don't know plenty nearly her likely interests, you lot could even commencement the chat by confessing your lack of knowledge and asking her to make a recommendation.

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    Know her passions. In the Us, the term "otaku" is usually reserved for people who are hardcore anime or manga fans, only in Japan, "otaku" basically defines anyone who is a hardcore fan of any i interest. Even if the otaku girl in your life is a huge anime fan, it helps to know which series and genres she's near interested in.[iii]

    • The Japanese concept of "otaku" is like to the American idea of a fangirl (or fanboy), geek, or nerd. A person could be an anime otaku or game otaku, but someone could besides be something similar a train otaku. Anyone who loves something enough to obsess over information technology tin can exist labeled as an "otaku."
    • The American concept of "otaku" tends to be someone who is obsessed with some function of Japanese popular civilisation or Asian pop civilization in general. Anime, manga, and reckoner games are the most notable obsessions, simply an otaku could also obsess over J-Pop music or Korean dramas.

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    Do your research. Simply knowing the title of her favorite series isn't enough. If you really desire to print your otaku girl, you lot should practice a piffling enquiry into her favorites and so that you know what they're all about. You lot don't demand to dearest everything she loves, only you should have a basic enough understanding to follow along with her rants when she starts talking about one of her passions.

    • Some other advantage to your inquiry is that yous'll learn more than about the blazon of things she loves, rather than knowing just a few examples. Most otaku girls will branch out from their original obsessions and latch onto things related to them.[iv] If you learn plenty about what interests her, you may eventually be able to introduce her to something else she'd enjoy, which will definitely get out her feeling impressed with you.

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    Impress her by acknowledging those interests. Take her to places that cater to her passions. Give her gifts that are related to the things she loves. Otaku girls like to exist romanced, merely standard "cookie cutter" actions merely scratch the surface and fail to accost her as an individual.

    • Keep in listen that your gifts practise non demand to be expensive to make an impression. Equally a full general rule, otaku girls tend to bask inexpensive merchandise related to their favorite series and characters simply besides as expensive merchandise. Something as simple as a Totoro plush toy might exist plenty to charm a girl who loves Studio Ghibli characters.
    • If traditional romance is your style, yous can stick with it, just try putting a twist on things. Take her out for dinner and a movie, but pick an anime movie (for an anime otaku).[5] Similarly, you can buy her jewelry, just look for jewelry connected to one of her favorite franchises.

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    Do not look down on her or expect her to alter. Some otaku girls might be a little embarrassed past their interests, but nearly don't run across any shame in it. Either way, you demand to show her that you don't feel embarrassed past her interests. Cutting her downwards for loving the things she loves is a quick way to brand her push y'all away.

    • Many otaku girls even enjoy the fact that their interests are somewhat obscure. Later on all, an obscure interest is unique, and people generally like to feel as though they're 1-of-a-kind.

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    Compliment her. An otaku girl is still a girl, subsequently all, and so you lot'll need to pamper her with occasional sugariness talk. Make your compliments honest and try to be a footling creative. As with everything, a compliment that addresses her as a unique individual is better than something stereotypical.

    • Like most women, she'll want to be complimented on her appearance sometimes. Instead of saying something general--"Y'all're really pretty"—compliment something specific, like a sure characteristic—"I honey the color of your eyes"—or a specific accompaniment—"Your glasses perfectly frame your gorgeous eyes."
    • You should also compliment her personality, equally well as her advent. Remark on her intelligence, her cheerfulness, her generosity, or any other positive characteristic.

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    Detect her other quirks. More than specifically, know what sort of things bother her. The otaku daughter is a very passionate person overall. Most of her passion is directed at things she loves, just she can be equally passionate virtually things she hates. In one case y'all know what she hates, practice your all-time to avoid it.

    • For example, if she'southward picky about grammar and spelling, you lot probably shouldn't send her texts like, "wanna hang out??? c u l8r!!" Instead, take the time to spell things out and double-check your messages for errors.

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    Don't push her too far out of her condolement zone. While some otaku girls can exist quite extroverted, near tend to be somewhat introverted. She may not be "shy," per se, but she may non enjoy big crowds or similar settings as much as you practise. Relationships crave both parties to brand compromises, simply if you desire to work your way into her heart, know when to take her out and when to let her stay in.

    • For those girls who are extroverted, besides keep in mind that certain settings may still make her uncomfortable. She might like socializing with close groups of friends, but that doesn't necessarily hateful she'll enjoy going to a packed lodge full of strangers.

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    Requite her space for her hobbies. There are times when the otaku girl might want to enjoy her hobbies on her own or with friends who pursue them only as vigorously equally she does. Permit her do this. Wanting to be with her equally she does what she enjoys is a good thing, just forcing yourself volition only make both you and her more miserable.

    • When she'southward out enjoying the things she loves, have time to enjoy your own interests. Visit friends, have some lone time, or go to an consequence you know your otaku girlfriend would never savour.
    • If yous feel the need to be constantly continued to her, ask yourself why. You lot might be feeling neglected or jealous. Figure out what the issue is and talk it over with her before it gnaws away at the foundation of your relationship.

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    Brand a trade. [6] When yous're trying to impress the otaku daughter, you might focus on activities that appeal strictly to her interests. In one case the two of you lot enter into a more serious human relationship, though, you lot'll need to notice balance between the 2 of you. One of the best ways to exercise this is to make trades. In return for doing something she loves this time, the two of you will exercise something you love adjacent time.

    • When you lot do spend fourth dimension doing what she loves, effort to be genuinely interested in it. If she wants you to watch a favorite movie, pay attention to it instead of staring at your telephone. If she drags you along to a convention, endeavour to find something most the convention that you can be interested in, as well.
    • You can too allow her instruct y'all on her hobbies. For case, if she happens to love a certain game, let her teach you the all-time way to play it

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    Trust her. Some of the friends who share your otaku girlfriend's interests might be guys, but typically, you won't need to worry about her turning her romantic attentions toward them once the two of yous are already in a human relationship. Remember that the otaku girl is fiercely passionate about the things she loves. If she loves you lot, she's non likely to drib you so easily.

    • When you lot show that you lot trust her, it may also make information technology easier for her to trust you. By demonstrating that yous are dedicated and secure in your relationship, y'all'll prove that she has no reason to doubt your angel.

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    Drib your guard. Equally the two of y'all go more serious, yous need to demonstrate that you are comfortable effectually her. Since many otaku girls accept introverted personalities, they'll notice it oppressive if they experience similar they always have to be "on" for y'all. Make yourself comfortable effectually her and so that she'll be more comfortable effectually you in return.

    • Dropping your guard should be done in moderation, though. Yous don't need to bear witness upwards at her door in polo shirt and khakis, just on the other hand, you don't want to clothing the same stained t-shirt iv days in a row, either. Exist casual, simply take care of your appearance and showroom respectful behavior.

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    Be more than than simply a boyfriend. In spite of her love of ii-dimensional characters, you'll demand to be deeper than that. Instead of being the perfect charmer, you need to exist her friend. Get someone who she tin can plough to for credence and comfort if you want the relationship to last.

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